Toddler Mom tales

Today, I want to share a personal and quite a relatable parenting episode: dealing with my toddler’s potty rejection phase, which came after we thought we had successfully potty trained. It’s a journey filled with patience, understanding, and a few clever strategies.

The Initial Success

We started potty training with all the enthusiasm and resources you could imagine. There were reward charts, cheerful encouragement, and lots of patience. It seemed like a success! We were over the moon, proudly stepping into a diaper-free world.

The Unexpected Turn

But then, out of nowhere, our little one started saying ‘no’ to the potty. The same child who had been using the potty happily for weeks suddenly reverted back to wanting diapers. At first, I was puzzled and, if I’m honest, a bit frustrated. What had changed?

Understanding the ‘Why’

After some research and talking to our pediatrician, I learned that potty rejection isn’t uncommon. It can be triggered by several factors – changes in routine, stress, or just a part of their development where they seek more control over their environment.

Our Approach

1. Empathy and Patience: I realized that getting upset wouldn’t help. Instead, I showed empathy, understanding that this phase was as confusing for my toddler as it was for me.
2. Back to Basics: We revisited the potty training basics but without pressure. The potty was there, available but not forced.
3. Communication: We talked about the potty, read books about it, and even let my toddler see family members using the toilet to normalize it again.
4. Praise and Encouragement: Every small success was celebrated. But, I was careful not to overdo it – the goal was to make using the potty a normal, no-big-deal activity.
5. Consistency: Despite the setbacks, we kept a consistent routine, which provided a sense of security and predictability.

The Turnaround

Gradually, we saw a change. My toddler began to show interest in the potty again. There were good days and bad days, but slowly the good started to outweigh the bad.

Reflections and Advice

Looking back, this phase taught me a lot about the ups and downs of parenting. If you’re going through something similar, remember:

• It’s a phase, and it will pass.
• Stay calm and empathetic.
• Be consistent but not forceful.
• Celebrate the small victories.

Potty training is not just about getting your child to use the toilet, it’s a complex learning process for them. Understanding this made all the difference for us.

To all the parents navigating the tricky waters of potty training and dealing with potty rejection – you’re not alone. With patience, empathy, and a little bit of strategy, this too shall pass. Here’s to more successes (and fewer messes) in our parenting journey!

Stay strong and patient all the mommas!

Remember, every child is different, and what works for one may not work for another. Always trust your instincts and consult with a pediatrician if you have concerns.